Brent Warnecke

Ask anyone who knew Brent and you’ll get the same answer before you finish the question: he already had a plan. He knew when, and he knew where. A beach this fall, a bike route in France next summer, dinner the next time you were both in the same city. Keeping up with him was its own adventure, and somehow the invitation always felt like it was meant just for you.

He came by it honestly. The oldest of four, he ran the show early, taxing his siblings’ candy at Easter, handing out the presents on Christmas morning, talking his little brother and two sisters into being a little better at whatever they were doing. He was the kind of big brother who pulled everyone along, and he never really stopped.

At Triton Central, out in Shelby County, he was a three-sport athlete with a highlight reel he loved to retell: ten interceptions in the 1987 season, a school record that still stands, and a 4x100 relay that ran all the way to the state finals. He carried that same wiring into a sales career after Ball State. He could talk to anyone, and he meant it; the offices lit up when he walked in, and the customers became friends. For years he practically lived in the Delta Sky Lounge, racking up a million miles and chasing the second.

Then came Heather. They married in 2018 and built a life in Indianapolis with two bulldogs named Bourbon and Pinot, and the plans only got bigger. Europe and the beach. Wine tasted where it was made. His favorite singer, Zaz, in the south of France. And the bikes. The two of them chasing the Tour de France on their own two wheels, mile after mile. That’s the whole reason the Brewar Ride exists. Twenty miles every June was his idea of a good day, borrowed.

So that’s what we do with it. Every beach, every mile, every sunset, every glass of wine still comes back to his laugh, and to a friendship list that ran twenty-five years, forty-five years, across job changes and time zones and a whole ocean without ever going quiet. He spent that same energy on people he’d never met, too, helping start Change by One to get medical care, shelter, and food to at-risk and orphaned kids in Bali.

So the fund keeps the plan going. The Brent C. Warnecke Memorial Scholarship sends students from Shelby County, where it all started for him, a little further down the road. The ride is one day. The fund is year-round. Both of them are him.

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